After watching the video with your mentee(s), ask the questions, below, to engage the young person(s) in a mentoring conversation with you:
a) What was the song talking about?
b) What does the repeating line, "Before you love me, you gotta respect me," mean to you?
c) Why is respect so important in a relationship?
d) What does the song mean when they sing, "If you with me then you with me. And you're not with no one else. And if you want me then accept that I won't go for nothing else"?
e) What could cause a person to get angry with their girlfriend or boyfriend?
f) How can a person prevent getting violent with their girlfriend or boyfriend?
g) What does God tell us about love and respect? In Ephesians 4:32 He says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." What does this verse mean?
h) Have you received Jesus as your Lord and Savior?